Dating Should Be Worth Your Time.
A matching app for people who hate dating apps.
The Foundation
20+ years of research•500K+ data points•14K+ helped
The Result
Just released•1,000+ matching•5 marriages
AILO: Science-Based Compatibility Matching
Compatibility, assessed.
We do the math. You do the chemistry.
For people who date with intention.
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You've Done Everything Right.
The system profits when you keep swiping.
You want depth
Great on profile, nothing in person
Months in, the real issues surface
New app, same cycle
You want depth
Great on profile, nothing in person
Months in, the real issues surface
New app, same cycle
The real non-negotiables often surface 6 months in.
We reveal them in 7 minutes.
Compatibility Isn't a Feeling.
It's a Blueprint.
AILO measures 6 compatibility markers
Natural Attraction
The instinctive spark that draws two people together.
Natural Attraction
The instinctive spark that draws two people together.
Emotional Intimacy
How you naturally open up and relate to each other.
Emotional Intimacy
How you naturally open up and relate to each other.
Lifestyle Alignment
How your preferences shape every decision you make together.
Lifestyle Alignment
How your preferences shape every decision you make together.
Worldview & Energy
How you perceive the world around you, and whether your energies align.
Worldview & Energy
How you perceive the world around you, and whether your energies align.
Drive & Tension
What motivates each of you, and where those drives collide.
Drive & Tension
What motivates each of you, and where those drives collide.
Life Seasons & Vitality
How your rhythms of life naturally support each other.
Life Seasons & Vitality
How your rhythms of life naturally support each other.
The Process
Take the Assessment
A 7-minute assessment across three dimensions: Perception, Expression, and Reality.
Discover Yourself First
AILO AI generates your Profile Preview and Needs Insight based on your assessment results.
Only Naturally Compatible Matches
You see profiles above 70% compatibility with measured insights. We present, you choose.



Built on Data. Proven in Practice.
This isn't another dating app. It's the result of decades of studying what makes relationships actually work.

Haleh Gianni M.S.
CEO & Founder
- •15 years as an International Relationship Coach and Educator
- •10+ years as a Senior Systems and Software Quality Engineer
- •Co-creator of AILO’s Compatibility Computations & Analysis
- •Trainer & Speaker on the Science of Attraction & Human Nature

Zannah Hackett Ph.D.
Chief Science Officer
- •Holds the patent for AILO’s assessment methodology
- •Co-creator of AILO’s Compatibility Computations & Analysis
- •Author, Behaviorist, Speaker, Educator
- •20+ Years as a Global Relationship Advisor to YPOs and Corporations
What Members Say
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