What is AILO

Find Your Real Match Not Just Another Swipe

Tired of dating apps that feel more like games than real connections? You’re not alone. At AILO, we believe love isn’t about standing out or endlessly chasing likes. It’s about genuine compatibility and memorable connections. That’s why we created AILO: the world’s first dating experience powered by Authentic Intelligence™ and two decades of relationship science.

It isn’t just about helping you find Love, but providing the insight to explore and maintain your relationship. AILO goes beyond the surface, the selfies, and the swipes.

It evaluates traits and dispositions between two people to measure their natural compatibility; a blend of similarities and differences that creates a complementary attraction.

AILO eliminates the guessing game and online dating fatigue by bringing substance and value to the process of finding love.
AILO eliminates the guessing game and online dating fatigue by bringing substance and value to the process of finding love.

Developed by skilled relationship strategists

Developed by skilled relationship strategists

For over 20 years, AILO’s relationship experts have focused solely on helping people find depth and meaning in their connections. After decades of listening to heartbreaks, breakthroughs, needs, and patterns, they gathered what truly helps people find and keep love and integrated it all into AILO. Their collective expertise in relationship science infuses AILO with insights no algorithm could invent.

Artificial and Authentic Intelligence combined for honest profile generation

Artificial and Authentic Intelligence combined for honest profile generation

AILO’s foundation is built on research and hands-on work with singles and couples worldwide. This authentic intelligence reveals how you naturally love, communicate, and connect. From there, Artificial Intelligence steps in to auto-generate your Profile Preview with a personalized bio that makes you feel seen, not scripted.

Offers a new perspective on assessing natural compatibility.

Offers a new perspective on assessing natural compatibility.

While most dating assessments focus on surface-level similarities to predict success, AILO goes deeper. Our proprietary analysis uncovers your core nature, needs, and disposition, not just who you are, but how you move through relationships. Instead of matching you with someone who mirrors you, AILO introduces you to someone who complements you.

How is AILO different?

AILO isn’t your ordinary dating app. Instead of asking you to write a clever bio or choose the “best” selfie, AILO uses a Discovery Assessment to create personalized profiles and matches based on natural traits and behaviors, not just surface-level details.

Tired of Superficial Matches and Swipe Fatigue?

We get it, you’re frustrated with the old way of online dating. AILO tackles the struggles everybody’s talking about.

Why do so many dating apps feel shallow?

Because they focus on photos and swipe-based judgments. AILO eliminates photo-first matching, showing you only people who align with your real personality traits. You’ll finally get to skip the uncomfortable “sell-yourself” phase.

Sick of endless swiping and wasted time?

Endless, low-quality profiles can wear anyone out. That’s why AILO gives you just 7 days of carefully curated matches—each with at least 70% compatibility. No infinite scrolling or mindless “liking”—just a handful of high-potential connections.

Concerned about privacy and misleading profiles?

Most apps put your details and photos out there for everyone, making privacy feel impossible. With AILO, your profile is only visible to your best matches, and you’ll never have to share your exact age. Every profile is generated from your assessment responses, so exaggeration and catfishing are things of the past.

Frequently asked questions

Why are preference settings limited in AILO?

Why are preference settings limited in AILO?
Why are preference settings limited in AILO?

AILO™ keeps preference settings intentionally limited to protect authenticity and avoid the “shopping list” problem found in many dating apps. Instead of endless filters, AILO balances your choices with our compatibility science. By answering the assessment honestly and openly, you will increase your chances of seeing more meaningful matches.

AILO user preference settings are:

  • Your & Your Match’s Gender 
  • Location Radius to Search for your Match

Why are some of the matches not “my type”?

Why are some of the matches not “my type”?
Why are some of the matches not “my type”?

Attraction is multi-layered. What you notice at first glance is only one piece of who someone is. AILO encourages you to look beyond surface “types” to discover deeper qualities — like energy, values, lifestyle, and communication. Sparks are important, but lasting love often comes from compatibility that goes further than first impressions.

How do I unmatch with someone?

How do I unmatch with someone?
How do I unmatch with someone?

In your Match Lounge, scroll to the bottom of the profile and tap Unmatch. Once you unmatch, that person will no longer appear in your active matches. However, if your compatibility score remains 70% or higher, they may reappear in your Feed after 30 days, giving you the option to reconnect if the timing feels right.

How long does it take to complete the AILO assessment?

How long does it take to complete the AILO assessment?
How long does it take to complete the AILO assessment?

The AILO™ assessment takes about 7–10 minutes to complete. It’s important to answer as honestly as you can. We’re not matching you based on any single response. Each answer is distilled and weighed as part of a larger pattern, giving you a meaningful and accurate picture of compatibility.

How does AILO ensure user safety and privacy?

How does AILO ensure user safety and privacy?
How does AILO ensure user safety and privacy?

Your profile is only shown to people with a higher chance of compatibility, not to the general population. AILO’s compatibility criteria take careful measures to filter out risky profiles and prioritize authentic connections. While our assessment is not a psychological profiling tool and we do not conduct background checks, we focus on ensuring that every introduction has a strong potential for a meaningful connection.

To help you make more informed choices, AILO also presents a breakdown of compatibility percentages across six key areas (Magnetism, Connection, Comfort, Perspective, Objectives, and Timing). This way, you can see where alignment is strongest and make decisions with deeper insight, not just surface impressions.

How do I know which match is better for me?

How do I know which match is better for me?
How do I know which match is better for me?

Start by looking at the matches with the highest compatibility percentage. This score is an average across six key areas shown in your compatibility screen. Each area highlights a different part of your alignment, giving you a fuller picture of the connection. Together, they reflect where the strongest potential lies for a meaningful relationship. Ultimately, the choice is yours.

Discover

 what is right

 what is right

 with you

Discover

what is right

what is right

with you and

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 who is right

 who is right

 for you

who is right

who is right

 for you